Refusing to Settle

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How to ethically Cut someone out of your life -- YOU ARE THE AVERAGE OF THE TOP FIVE PEOPLE YOU HANG AROUND. How do you know if someone is averaging you… down? And… what can you do about it without being rude or hurtful? Show you that in this video This is Clark with refusing to settle dot come — let’s go I did this video 5-years ago on a bad webcam. People loved it. Thought I’d add some stuff to it for all you beautiful people. I got an email from a dude talking about close friend group pulling him down. They’d always talk smack about instagram people they follow, no motivation, wanted to drink, etc.

A. notice: Birds of feather flock together You ARE who you hang around. See eagles flying with crows? See millionaires hanging with construction workers? See fat people — the study shows you’re 50% MORE likely to be obese if best friends are!! You MUST realize this that who you hang around… you become. NOTICE - if you think they’re toxic… just keep notes in your head.

WARNING SIGNS: 1. Mad at your success 2. Project their limiting beliefs onto you 3. Lack ambition and long-term vision i.e. had a close friend who had girlfriend ALWAYS drinking. Binge drinking bottles of wine. Noticed this when I pointed it out to her that she drank a lot around that specific friend… but not others. She was like “oh, never noticed before”

B. Ask: Give them changes to change! Most people take the easy route with this: say, JUST CUT THEM LOOSE! Are you kidding? That is super insensitive. Fact sometimes the best thing you can do when someone is toxic or struggling,… is be there for them. second chances - i believe strongly in them How do you know it’s too far? When it starts affecting YOU. i.e. friend: she asked if she thought she had a problem? Was met with mega resistance! i.e. “piviot” in business world — chance to change!

B. Decide: it’s happening… but how A HA: in my life came when I realized that there’s some people you grow up with and theres others you grow out of…. What if you were forced to hangout with childhood friends ONLY. or ONLY the people you hung out with in middle school? Look at their facebook pages…. good god! What if you had to work same job as 14? We accept this in other areas,, but with cutting people out for some reason we can’t. i.e. drinking friend she knew had to cut out because it was affecting her, negative, etc

3. Cut: Let it rip!

1. BLUNT: Ethically do it: Have an honest real talk with them. Don’t have to be rude, but you’re telling them you don’t want to see them anymore. Break up.

2. PASSIVE: Slowly distance yourself from that person over time.

3. GHOST: No contact. Ever again. delete them off FB/phone/etc.

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Clark

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Today I got a good ol fashion rant about passive income. If you ever wanted to make money online or want to own your own business or currently do, You need to hear this. clark from refusing to settle dot com. Let’s go! most people that do are looking for the opposite… Truth is 75% of emails I get have someone asking me how to make passive income… so they don’t have to work. When you peel back the onion that’s what they’re saying. See anything wrong there? Passive income and what they don’t tell you — takes a TON of work to set up! You don’t just walk into it. Have to EARN it. My point is this: If you pursue passive income from the place of trying to escape something, it won’t be sustainable. Because the thing you’re pursuing takes work, patience, and strategy. Not to mention it’s constantly evolving. And if you don’t love it, you’ll view changes from space of “OH NO! I LOST IT ALL”

WHAT TO PURSUE INSTEAD: Here’s my ultimate goal: AUTOMATION

“Systems” - you hear me talk about. That’s the best goal in my mind. Do you want to work ON your business or IN your business? If you don't have automation you don’t have a good business. NOW - downside is to get to a place of where you can outsource and hire, you have to grind for a while. Unless you invest money upfront. Growing pains of figuring stuff out. NEED to go through that in order to be a success! i.e. me 4-years ago, I could have run FB as and done all marking stuff, but it would have been a waste of money. i.e setting sail on trip with holes in your boat. OR setting sail with rusty boat. — fix it so you don’t drown in middle of ocean.

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Clark

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This video’s a little out there - but if you stick with it…. it will make everything in your life click. We're talking about a 3 step magnetic formula that attracts success to you. This goes beyond the law of attraction, manifesting, or affirmations. This dives deep into your subconscious and how to reprogram your mind for success! clark from refusing to settle dot com. Let’s go!

Hey refusers - so if you’re watching this channel, it means

1. Belief i.e. 4-min Mile i.e. Steve Jobs — belief to build iPhone — those who are crazy enough to believe they can change the world are the ones that actually do!!

2. Attraction A) Specificity — EXACT number. EXACT day. (i.e. YouTube Subs, 100k Revenue, etc) B) Daily — NOT Amazon Prime! Can’t just one click it and expect it to drop off on the doorstep.

3. Action You will be tested i.e. — my drumming journey SAY NO to SAY YES

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Clark


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So you want to be successful — you’ve seen uber successful people and see yourself there, right? Athletes, business people, millionaires, actors, musicians — but how do you know if you’ll actually get there one day? This is Clark with refusing to settle dot come — let’s go

1. You risk it for the biscuit “no risk no reward” we understand this conceptually, but we really don’t apply it daily. Work much harder not to lose something than to gain something. Right? The reason it’s so scary to ask a women out on a date is because we view the LOSS of image getting rejected. The reason it’s so hard to to film youtube videos is that you’re viewing all potential haters. Negative comments! Tip: FLIP THAT! View it going RIGHT Not talking stupid risk here, but anything you do (acting, business, etc) is gonna require putting yourself out there - which ultimately means RISK

2. you can take failure Story: Goal in college was reading 4-hour work week! SOLD! Absolute Abs product in college. I had great business idea — fitness WITH drums. Shirtless drumming youtube WITH my first product… Absolute Abs. It sold 3 copies. I got TONS of hate. I “wasted” 6-mo of everyday pulling hair out outsourcing to Bangladesh - goal was just to make it BIG TIME. It turned into a big time failure.

3. you can REDIRECT Okay so why wasn’t absolute abs a total failure? because I used this third thing: REDIRECT! This is SO powerful if you get this concept. 2 degree change I 2 degrés changed into self-development. Instagram: 2 degree changed from address book into number one platform in world. You need to re direct your life from time to time, and that’s totally okay! You’ll make it big if you face this with brutal honesty.

4. you can LAUgh Face this “self-development” with such seriousness Ever see Dahlia Lama? Dude is always smiling, occasionally cracks inappropriate jokes! He’s playful. I know telling you to “loosen up” when you’re broke and grinding it out sucks to hear. Did for me. BUT Tony Robbins says: in 5-years you’ll look back on this and laugh, so why wait?

Refusing to settle,

Clark

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Just some thoughts from this morning's run. Are you being a giver or a taker? Let me know your thoughts in the comments below!

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Clark

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Hey refusers - so if you’re watching this channel, it means you’re going to be successful one day. This book knocked me over flat. I read it coming back from a festival in Mexico my band was playing to 6k people. And as I was looking out at the crowd I kept thinking - how do you build a movement like this? Get ALL these people here for a comment experience or goal or gathering? And in this book totally explained and laid it out in such an eye-opening format, not sure if I ever got SO much out of a single book. ANYWAY - I’m pumped! First, because this is one of my favorite books. Second, because you get it for FREE — YES! FREE.99! Just click the link below and pay for shipping it gets sent straight to you. GET YOUR FREE BOOK HERE: https://tinyurl.com/yb896xrq Let’s go over the top 10 ideas now.

1. To progress is to share One of the things you’ll need to do is LEARN. Taking IN information. Consuming machine. School, podcasts, books, seminars, youtube videos, etc. but there comes a point where that growth plateaus… right? You’ve probably experienced this: in gym workout going super well… then stops in diet lose tons of weight… then nothing in self-development learn all these awesome concepts… then seems to get repetitive am I right? In my experience, the only way to keep progressing is to switch from that consumer LEARNING role to the giving TEACHING role.

2. Figure out your epiphany “AND THAT WAS THE MOMENT WHEN…..” —Brendon Burchard i.e. for me: post-college mess, mom’s basement, 40k in debt, GF broke up with me all same month basically handed me a book that said, “how to get your S*** together”… at a time trying so many things online didn’t work bought 1-way ticket to SEA — traveled around the world, lived the 4HWW.. only one problem didn’t have the WORK component down! Sitting at Angkor Watt watching the sunrise at 4AM — hit me i had an untapped potential rising up inside me. Took out a journal and wrote down HOW my life was gonna go next 4 years. Knew i had to earn my freedom. to do that — had to REFUSE to settle. Since then, the six-figure business achieved nearly all my dreams, pro drummer for a band 6-mo out of the year. Play festivals and launch products doing what I love. Pretty epic.

3. ATTRACTIVE CHARACTER One of my biggest takeaways EVERY movie, EVERY TV show, EVERY book, EVERY story has at least ONE person to relate to. This is the attractive character. (Han Solo, Mickey Mouse,

4. The only three markets HEALTH WEALTH RELATIONSHIPS

 

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Clark

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Things I Learned Growing From $0 to $100,000 Per Year

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Clark

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Just a real talk from the gut...

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Clark

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These are my 5 Unique ways to Make Money On YouTube With A Small Channel - something a lot of new youtubers ask me about. YES! You still can make money with a small channel on youtube, it just requires a little more hustle and creativity.

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Here is how to grow on youtube with 0 views and 0 subscribers. It can be hard, but using the right methods you can gain subscribers and views quickly.

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Here is how to write viral videos on youtube that get views and get subscribers. Outlining my videos has been my secret to getting videos that get 1M+ Views.

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How to make a youtube custom thumbnail in 5 min or less. Let's walkthrough How to make custom thumbnails on youtube.

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If you’re doing ANYTHING on youtube, thumbnails maybe MORE important than your title, topic, even you….. I say your thumbnail is your resume, it’s what gets your foot in the door, today I’m showing you 3 simple ways to make a custom thumbnail. clark with mybackstagestudio.com — my NEW course that gives you the cheat codes to creating awesome videos. My personal private vault open for the first time. Today I wanted to show you how to make cool thumbs. Here are 3 steps:

1. STEP ONE: CHOOSE YOUR METHOD Challenge because you basically got 3 options:

1. PAY —hire a Designer. Get’s expensive, I was paying 20-50/image. (someone in comments was like, WOAH, dude I paid $15 for 5. I went and looked almost commented back, yeah and they LOOK like they were cheap!)

2. DIY — CON: time-consuming, you’re not a graphic designer, learning curve. CAN WORK. What I do now, get complete control over looks/marketing.

3. DEFAULT — not most engaging. 2. STEP TWO: CHOOSE YOUR STYLE

3. STEP THREE: DIY IT Show Canva Show PicMonkey Show Photoshop If you liked this video, you’ll LOVE what’s in BSS Show you methods how to schedule videos so it’s easy/write them so they get views. GIVE you my expensive, designer thumbs in that course You also get 2GB my favorite royalty free footage, my favorite music songs, my video exigent process, new studio tour, EVERYTHING.

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Clark

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 How I GOT OVER 102k Subs in Under 365 Days HOOK: This is an actual screen shot. It’s a 365 window and how I got over 102k subs in under 365 days (my channel was under 100k at the time). Today, I’m giving you my secrets….

This is clark kegley with refusing to settle — let’s go

1. WATCH TIME STILL the most important metric STILL the thing to focus on Five Tips: Number your points, edit out the DEAD weight + repeating talking, use jump cuts, get STRAIGHT to it (most people are browsing and don’t care), tease in the video future — later i’ll give you _______.

2. SESSION TIME (ON SCREEN) Session time: You get credit for bringing people ONTO platform and KEEPing them here. Session Start time = what someone comes onto platform with. Session Duration = how long they got kept here. Makes sense, right? Think about it: the more total time = more adds person sees = more money for YouTube and for You. How to not shoot yourself in the foot here: reduce amount of links you give viewer. ONLY link to videos or playlists (more on that in a bit). I’M A GIANT HYPOCRITE HERE! I out link like NO other. I know that MY brand is what I’m trying to grow, not YouTube’s. If I were JUST starting and trying to get momentum — don’t out link too much until 10k subs.

3. RELATED VIDEOS (ON SCREEN) Get in that sidebar sweet zone Related: To YOUR own popular videos (look at yours) Related: to OTHER people’s (use similar keywords) NO KEYWORD STUFFING!

4. UPLOAD FREQ Did a 50 for 50 challenge Gained 18k+ SUBS and $4k + Revenue only from ads Sales went through roof MORE you post, the MORE you’re promoted BSS If you liked this video, you’ll LOVE what’s in BSS Show you methods how to schedule videos so it’s easy/write them so they get views. GIVE you my expensive, designer thumbs in that course You also get 2GB my favorite royalty free footage, my favorite music songs, my video exigent process, new studio tour, EVERYTHING.

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Clark


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Here's a little DIY 365-Calendar tracker I made the other night. Thought you might like it. Use this to plan your year and be more productive. Great for planning big projects in the future and setting goals that are far out.

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Clark

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Here are the three mistakes most people make when keeping a journal. You do not want to be making any of these journaling mistakes. This is great advice on how to journal for beginners and how to set up your journal for 2018.

 

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Clark

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